Thought for the Day: Why
do people keep insisting that kids need
the traditional classroom experience to learn how to get along with others—with
the implication being that without that experience, they will grow up to be
social misfits? Look around. You’ll see all kinds of socially awkward
individuals who grew up in those classrooms. Aren’t most bullies found in the classroom? They don’t seem to
know how to get along acceptably with others (or care, for that matter). So it
seems to me that the classroom as a training ground for modifying social
behavior is a failure. Besides, its purpose should be to provide a
comprehensive education in language arts, math, history, and science. Fine arts and phys. ed. are good extras to
have, though these days many states’ budgets can’t seem to afford them, leaving
the pursuit of that kind of education in the hands of the parents.
As we grow, either we find a way to get along with the
members of our family, or we argue and fight. We meet our neighbors, fellow
church and club members, the employees of businesses we frequent, and co-workers.
We won’t get along with everyone, but when we have an attitude of cooperation,
we’ll manage to get along with many of them. It doesn’t take a classroom experience.
It takes personal resolve.
Good post, and I believe you are right!
ReplyDeleteI love the bumper sticker: Public School? Aren't you worried about socialization? hehehe
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The family is for sure the first place we learn to socialize. If we can't function in family, we are doomed not to function well in any societal structure. I think that's a big problem in public (and private) schools. Many families don't function as they should, so the kids have no idea how to properly relate to anyone. Whenever kids are thrust into the public realm, whether as young children or young adults, if they haven't been properly taught how to socialize at home, they will struggle.
ReplyDeleteThat's exactly right, JM!
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